need new feedbacks from u.........?
people who hav already answrd thanks a lot, i need new people to answer. Hello, I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. This is the piece. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. So difficult to understand a woman's mind-- 1) she invited him to our wedding, now she is avoiding him. How did she expect to talk to him at our wedding, when she is avoiding him now? . 2) she told him to remain as good friends, now she doesnt talk to him only as a friend when everything seems settled from his side?? (i m doing all this just to understand my woman better)

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Wedding invitation wording?
Not sure who's names should go on the invitation and how to fit them all in to look nice. Both sets of our parents are divorced and some have new partners, so how do we word it? I read online who ever pays should go on. My mom only wants her and my dad on it. But my fiancee's parents are chipping in as well. Here is a list of our parents/step parents and their involvement in the wedding. My mom - paying for everything relating to me. Dress, hair, vail etc. (Changed last name back to maiden name) My dad - paying for reception (my mom and dad are separated - dad has an new girlfriend but they aren't married) Fiancees mom - Gave us a chunk of money to pay for other littles things, DJ, photographer etc. Fiancees dad - Divorced from mom, not giving any money Fiancees step dad - Married to fiancee's mom, not sure but fiancee's mom might be getting some of the money from him as well Any ideas please? Normal invitation example: Mr. and Mrs. Tomas Kling and Mr. and Mrs. Frederick Langston invite you to share in the joy of the marriage uniting their children Ashley Marie Kling and Patrick Everett Langston I definitely want to involve my dads new girl friend as little as possible. She didn't have a hand in raising me. They started dating 4 years ago after I was moved out of the house. I've only seen her a handful of times. My fiancee isn't a fan of his step dad? but he did live with him for a couple years before going off to college. And he might be giving us some money as well. I don't know why it got a thumbs down, but I really like the idea of just putting our parents invite you.. I wasn't money grubbing. It's what I was told. I thought maybe it mattered who paid the most. And even though his dad didn't pay anything (not that we care) I didn't know if traditionally he should still be on it or not.

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New feedback from new people required....?
thanks u alot people for answering. Will be grateful if new people answer too. Thank you. Hello, I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. This is the piece. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. So difficult to understand a woman's mind-- 1) she invited him to our wedding, now she is avoiding him. How did she expect to talk to him at our wedding, when she is avoiding him now? . 2) she told him to remain as good friends, now she doesnt talk to him only as a friend when everything seems settled from his side?? (i m doing all this just to understand my woman better)

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your view again ....please...upDate?
Hello, I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. This is the piece. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. So difficult to understand a woman's mind-- 1) if she doesnt want to have any frenship with that guy, why doesnt she say it to him flat that she no longer isnt interested in staying as friends? If she does want him as a fren, why does she avoid him now? Why is she in the both worlds at the same time??

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please answer to these Questions only....?
Hello, I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. This is the piece. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. my doubt always is this--- She is now my wife. She has to end COMPLETELY all her past things, IF there was any. The guys proposed her, she said no. They agreed to stay as friends. Now-- 1. If she has nothing, completely nothing inside her for him, she is to accept his frenship. Doesnt matter if he loves her or not, if she is convinced she doesnt have feelings for him then no one can make her change her mind. picture usrself, will u ? 2. If she does have something for him, she should either-- tell him she doesnt love him and end all contacts by herself saying to him in clear words (no playing games). Thats it, she is doing nothing of these. Thats why i am asking here on and on. sananth-- Very soothing answer. Now can u kindly explain, when she rejected her friend, then the friend asked her to temporarily stop contacts with him so that he could move on, and later on when he felt his feelings were not there, he could be safely be her friend again. But my wife said that if he was her friend, she would never give him the time- reason, she never said. Why? This is what you want, dont you- for ur friend to move on, and now u are doing this, isnt this confusing?

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Looking for wedding invitations...?
Help! I'm looking for a good website that sells pocket style wedding invitations. I can't seem to find any decent wedding invitations in my colors. I am doing a peacock colored wedding, so peacock, navy, silver, and maybe a little dark purple.

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your views on this and the Questions.....?
Hello, Yahoo answers has helped me a lot in the last few days. I have asked this Q here so many times, but havent got any answer that closely defines her state. So , m posting it again. . . ''I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. .. .. This is the piece. .. .. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. .. .. .. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. .. .. .. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. .. .. .. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. .. .. .. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. .. .. my doubt always is this--- She is now my wife. She has to end COMPLETELY all her past things, IF there was any. The guys proposed her, she said no. They agreed to stay as friends. . . Now-- 1. If she has nothing, completely nothing inside her for him, she is to accept his frenship. Doesnt matter if he loves her or not, if she is convinced she doesnt have feelings for him then no one can make her change her mind. picture usrself, will u ? She was the one who told him to remain as friends and told him good friends are forever and wasnt willing him to give the time to cut of contacts . Now why change decision? .. .. 2. If she does have something for him, she should either-- tell him she doesnt love him and end all contacts by herself saying to him in clear words (no playing games). Thats it, she is doing nothing of these. Thats why i am asking here on and on.''

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help me please..in answering..God will bless u..?
Hello, Yahoo answers has helped me a lot in the last few days. I have asked this Q here so many times, but havent got any answer that closely defines her state. So , m posting it again. . . ''I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. .. .. This is the piece. .. .. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. .. .. .. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. .. .. .. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. .. .. .. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. .. .. .. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. .. .. my doubt always is this--- She is now my wife. She has to end COMPLETELY all her past things, IF there was any. The guys proposed her, she said no. They agreed to stay as friends. . . Now-- 1. If she has nothing, completely nothing inside her for him, she is to accept his frenship. Doesnt matter if he loves her or not, if she is convinced she doesnt have feelings for him then no one can make her change her mind. picture usrself, will u ? She was the one who told him to remain as friends and told him good friends are forever and wasnt willing him to give the time to cut of contacts . Now why change decision? .. .. 2. If she does have something for him, she should either-- tell him she doesnt love him and end all contacts by herself saying to him in clear words (no playing games). Thats it, she is doing nothing of these. Thats why i am asking here on and on.''

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Where did this idea about weddings originate from?
So i have asked the question about adding that you prefer cash on your wedding invitiations and of course everyone on yahoo answers said that it is rude and against wedding etiquette to mention it on the invitation. well yesterday i posted the same question on FACEBOOK to all my friends and family who will be attending the wedding/reception. i had about ten answers and they all said it is NOT rude to ask for cash on the wedding invites. so now that i know my guests will not be offended i am definately putting cash preferred on the invitations in better wording of course. so now for my question. WHERE DID THIS IDEA THAT ASKING FOR MONEY ON YOUR WEDDING INVITATIONS IS AGAINST WEDDING ETIQUETTE COME FROM? WHERE DID IT ORIGINATE AND WHO MADE IT UP?

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Thank You a lot.....now please answer one Final Question....?
Hello, Thanks a million for your yesterday's answers. Now my Q is following-- .. .. ''how will she deal with her friend in future? 1) will she de-friend her friend in FB or block him? 2) Will she totally cut off contacts with her friend-- never again she will ever talk to him? 3) if that friend keeps on asking for frenship forever like this, will she forever keep on ignoring him?'' :::: ::: ''I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. .. .. This is the piece. .. .. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. .. .. .. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. .. .. .. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. .. .. .. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. .. .. .. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. .. .. my doubt always is this--- She is now my wife. She has to end COMPLETELY all her past things, IF there was any. The guys proposed her, she said no. They agreed to stay as friends. @Grace I am involving more and more brains here by asking the Qs. This will yield results, i am telling you.

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hello....your views please...(one last time)?
Hello, Thanks a million for your yesterday's answers. Now only one more Q at the end of the story-- :::: ::: ''I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. .. .. This is the piece. .. .. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. .. .. .. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. .. .. .. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. .. .. .. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. .. .. .. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. .. .. my doubt always is this--- She is now my wife. She has to end COMPLETELY all her past things, IF there was any. The guys proposed her, she said no. They agreed to stay as friends. QUESTION.. .. ''how will she deal with her friend in future? 1) will she de-friend her friend in FB or block him? 2) Will she totally cut off contacts with her friend-- never again she will ever talk to him? 3) if that friend keeps on asking for frenship forever like this, will she forever keep on ignoring him?''

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Your views please.....(one last time)....?
Hello, Thanks a million for your yesterday's answers. Now only one more Q at the end of the story-- :::: ::: ''I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. .. .. This is the piece. .. .. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. .. .. .. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. .. .. .. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. .. .. .. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. .. .. .. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. .. .. my doubt always is this--- She is now my wife. She has to end COMPLETELY all her past things, IF there was any. The guys proposed her, she said no. They agreed to stay as friends. QUESTION.. .. ''how will she deal with her friend in future? 1) will she de-friend her friend in FB or block him? 2) Will she totally cut off contacts with her friend-- never again she will ever talk to him? (3) if that friend keeps on asking for frenship forever like this, will she forever keep on ignoring him?'

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I'm having a party and I like some invitations from zazzle, but I can't decide, so I'm asking for help:) 1-http://www.zazzle.com/fuchsia_hot_pink_black_damask_party_invitation-161353287593629940 2-http://www.zazzle.com/pink_black_damask_sweet_16_birthday_party_invitation-161601966061472451 3-http://www.zazzle.com/seahorse_sensation_baby_shower_invitation-161030281807190029 4-http://www.zazzle.com/pink_white_and_black_damask_wedding_invitation-161350232362514386 5-http://www.zazzle.com/monogram_damask_pink_rsvp_cards_invitation-161011389533368246 P.S- I can change what ever what says, im just talking about th Design

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Hello, Thanks a million for your yesterday's answers. Now only one more Q at the end of the story-- :::: ::: ''I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. .. .. This is the piece. .. .. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. .. .. .. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. .. .. .. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. .. .. .. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. .. .. .. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. .. .. my doubt always is this--- She is now my wife. She has to end COMPLETELY all her past things, IF there was any. The guys proposed her, she said no. They agreed to stay as friends. QUESTION.. .. ''how will she deal with her friend in future? 1) will she de-friend her friend in FB or block him? 2) Will she totally cut off contacts with her friend-- never again she will ever talk to him? 3) if that friend keeps on asking for frenship forever like this, will she forever keep on ignoring him?'Everyday, i am getting mixed replies. Plz let me know how u can help.

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please help me with proper answers for one last time...?
Hello, Thanks a million for your yesterday's answers. Now my Q is at the end of the story. Thanks for being patient with the lengthy text. .. :::: ::: ''I have married through arranged marriage 1 month ago. I came in touch with my wife 3 months ago. I came to know something more about my wife through a common friend. I TRUST this friend. He is the one who introduced me to her. .. .. This is the piece. .. .. My wife was best freinds with a guy for over 3 years. They shared everything and liked each other a lot. In june this year, the guy proposed her when talks about her marriage were there. She said 'no' and told him he was her best fren and nothing else. The guy was damn sure abt getting an yes. So, he broke all contacts with her to teach her a lesson and she missed him(the common fren said so,). They didnt talk for 3 months. .. .. .. Then i came in touch with her. Our marriage date got fixed within 1 month. It was arranged (guys of west dont consider that arranged marriage is bad plz, its our cullture). Then the guy contacted her, wished her congratulations in sms. She didnt respond. He kept on sms'ing her for 5 days. Then she called him, she said it was ok and she didnt mind him proposing her and that she would be great frens as always. I heard they became frens again as earlier. .. .. .. Then after 1 week, he again said he loved her and couldnt bear her going away from his life. She again said she would never go away, it was inside his head and nothing else. He said he cudnt keep it as only frens coz staying as frens would also carry his feelings and that would jeopardise her married life. So, he told her to break the frenship. She still persisted for frenship. So, he in a fit of anger, told her he was not interested in her frenship. .. .. .. After that, after 3 days or so, he said sorry and told her he would be her good friend, but he needed time to forget his feelings of love.and when he felt his feelings werent there, he would safely return as a friend. But she now said 'no' (thats my confusion, why no?).he askd her why she said no, she avoided him. .. .. .. Then 1 week prior to my wedding, she sent him a FB wedding invitation. He congratulated her and askd her if she was still frens. She avoided again. Then 5 days before marriage, she sent him the actual printed wedding card to him but didnt talk to him. He called her just 1 day prior to wedding and asked what she is doing. She said it was her duty as a good fren to send him wedding card. he congratulated her and pleaded her to stop contacting him so that he could forget those feelings coz it was bad,, but she said, if he was her friend today and tomorrow, she would never give him the time. .. .. After that, i met up the common friend once again. He said her friend had moved on. he told me that now he wants only frenship just as ealier with her. He had tried to contact her after around 1 month of the wedding. He wished her for the 1st monthly wedding anniversary!! (that was so sweet of him), he wished her on the new year's eve, she had uploaded our wedding pics in FB to which he 'liked' and commented that may God bless us both-- but in all these times, she ignored him. Her friend appears to be a genuine fellow. But the way she is reacting is not appropiate. She had asked him to be friends and now he is doing just that. .. .. my doubt always is this--- She is now my wife. She has to end COMPLETELY all her past things, IF there was any. The guys proposed her, she said no. They agreed to stay as friends. . QUESTIONS ''how will she deal with her friend in future? 1) will she de-friend her friend in FB or block him? 2) Will she totally cut off contacts with her friend-- never again she will ever talk to him? 3) if that friend keeps on asking for frenship forever like this, will she forever keep on ignoring him?'' parhne ko maine bulaya nahi tereko bhosnike. Answer nahi karna to muh band rakh. to everyone-- Pardon for the strong words from me. But no, how many times u get bored, its coz u read and still find out the time to answer to me. It is simple however a nagging creature i may be, i will not give up till i get my answer. Till then enjoy my same questions.

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